Monday, August 23, 2010

Avoid an ugly break-up!

Avoid an ugly break-up!

TNN, Aug 23, 2010, 12.00am IST 

 

Ending your relationship can be a messy affair, but here's how you can avoid creating an ugly scene

Not all relationships last a lifetime and often it's best to end things before they get ugly. So, now you have decided to break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend. But don't think it's an easy job. It's likely that the other person still has feelings for you, so try and ensure that you end things graciously so that a beautiful relationship doesn't end with an ugly fight.

Don't break up at a public place:
While you may have gotten used to the idea of breaking up your girlfriend/boyfriend may need sometime to get used to the idea. So ensure that there's some privacy when you are breaking up. You wouldn't want to be a part of an ugly scene or fight and be a spectacle for those at the joint.

Don't get into it at your usual hang out:
Break-ups can be messy, so don't opt for a place that you are likely to frequent. In case you don't part of absolutely amicable terms at least people who know you won't be a witness to any kinds of fight.

Don't be too casual:
Don't break up while you are doing some mundane task like picking up groceries or chomping on a huge burger. Give your relationship and your partner some respect and plan how you want to go ahead with it.

Breaking up over sms or email:
While this may work for some, it may prove to be hara-kiri for others. Those who cannot express themselves may find the options of writing an email or a letter very appealing and it's not a bad option considering it allows you to elaborate your feelings. Also, it's prefect for those who prefer to avoid confrontation. Breaking up over SMS, however, can be highly insensitive. After all 160 characters can't be enough to end a relationship. However, breaking up over SMS too has its share of fans and has worked for many people.

Avoid breaking up over networking sites:
Those status message or pictures that you post are seen by so many people. Do you want all of them to be witness to your break-up? Plus if your break up is not an amicable one, do you want them to enjoy a mud slinging match between your and your girlfriend/boyfriend?

The slow and steady way:
The best way to break up often turns out to be the slow and steady way. This is where you make your partner realise that things are not working out between you. Give him/her sometime to get used to the idea, so that when you go for the 'big' talk, it doesn't come as a big surprise for him/her.

Don't put all the blame on your partner:
Don't go hammer and tongs at your girlfriend/boyfriend when you decide to give that big break up speech. Be practical and tell your partner that this is what you think would be best for you.

Don't make false promises:
Even if your partner gets highly emotional or cries buckets, don't make false promises like 'I'll think about it' or 'maybe we can give it another shot', unless you really mean it. Once you feel that a relationship is going nowhere it's silly to keep dragging it just because you care for the other person. Understand the difference between friendship and love and act accordingly.

-Compiled by Harshada Rege

Two monitors are better than one

Two monitors are better than one

You can never have enough screen space, especially when organizing and working on your digital pictures. Instead of buying a larger monitor, if you're using Windows 7, Vista, or XP, you can buy an inexpensive second monitor and connect it to your computer—instantly doubling your desktop space.

Flat panel LCD monitors look great and will save room on your desk; CRT monitors also work well and can be less expensive.

 

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Saturday, August 21, 2010

Daily Dump Going Green in just 600 rupees

Daily Dump Going Green in just 600 rupees

Written by Shilpi Kumar   

Poonam Bir Kasturi, a Bangalore-based NID graduate, introduces composting in terracotta vessels – a simple and sustainable way of managing waste from the very comfort of your home.

 

Genesis of the innovation


It might seem surreal to get people to do away with the good old trashcans and buy a pot worth Rs. 600 for disposing garbage. However, that is exactly what Poonam Bir Kasturi, the woman behind the Bangalore-based startup Daily Dump has been up to for the past one and a half years.

 

Poonam's terracotta vessels are designed to convert household waste into useful high-quality, nutrient rich manure. Ask her what made her come up with such a concept, and she says, "An average urban citizen generates over half a kilogram of solid waste everyday, which is disposed off without being segregated. People want to make a significant contribution towards reducing landfill waste, and they look for a simple way to do so. Replacing dustbins with these pots is an easy solution for customers to do their share of environmental friendly work."

 

An alumnus of the National Institute of Design, Poonam's knowledge of design also contributed in the shaping of the vessel. "Design as a process thinking tool is extremely powerful. I would constantly ask myself, 'How can design impact everyday life?', 'Can it be an enabler for a dignified individual action?' 'Is there an alternative to this obsessive consumerism?' It is after having many such discussions with friends and my students at the Srishti School of Art, Design and Technology, that the idea evolved," she says. After testing many different materials, Poonam concluded that terracotta is the best for decomposition. "Plastic failed miserably," says Poonam.

 

Implementation of the idea

Poonam made an initial investment of Rs 400,000 to set up the business. This included the cost of researching, getting the material, prototyping, publishing hand manuals that accompany the product, etc. The project has been completely funded by Poonam herself. As she puts it, "I do not want to sign for a grant or a loan, because I want to prove in some way that it is not always about the money or a business model, it is about intentions."

 

How did she implement the program and get the word across? She claims that a clear vision, correct platform and proper packaging are all it takes to build an intrinsic value and to disseminate information. In Poonam's case, her Website (dailydump.org), which cost her around Rs 200,000, played a great role in implementing the project. "I don't advertise for my products so most of the publicity happens through the Website. You can put up a lot of knowledge; you can direct people, and use it as a central force," she claims.

 

Thanks to their beautiful designs, these vessels can be placed anywhere from the garden, kitchen or even the entrance of the house. Also, there is a wide range of products, including the gamla, patta kambha, leave-it-pot, kambha and mota lota, from which the customers can choose. Miniature sets for kids, aprons, rakes, spoons and spatulas are available as well.

 

For customers who don't have the time or are unsure about how to begin with the composting process at home, Daily Dump offers service plans where someone from the team comes on a weekly basis to help with the maintenance. "Our fastest moving product, the kambha costs Rs 600. The cost of other vessels and accessories ranges from Rs 50-500, depending on the size and if someone wants a specific design, there is an extra project cost. The cost of the service plan is Rs 2,000," claims Poonam.

 

Challenges en route

One of the initial conflicts Poonam faced was to come to terms with the decision to make Daily Dump an open-source idea, i.e., to allow other players to venture into it and not patent it. Her friends thought that she was impractical in doing so and she was told that it is a complete do-gooder scheme and not a viable business proposition. Poonam, however, decided to march on. "I have just leveraged my expertise and haven't put a cost to it. Business analysts might think that my business model is all wrong, but I look at it as enabling several others to make money from my ideas," says Poonam. She even helps her clones in setting up the business, locating the suppliers, and gives technical assistance related to composting. The first slot of material can be obtained for free from Daily Dump.

 

On asked whether an open-source idea actually translates to increased competition, she comments, "Do you know how many people we need in this business before the waste is going to disappear from the society? Even if there are five clones of Daily Dump in Bangalore, the problem is so enormous, it won't suffice." Daily Dump has clones in Hyderabad and Chennai and more are expected to start up in Delhi, Pune and Chandigarh. There are clones in Dubai, Israel and China who have taken assistance from Poonam in setting up their business as well. The model is being replicated even in Florida. "I love the fact that I am a woman living in a developing country, working with completely low tech ideas, addressing a real urban problem and enabling someone in Florida to make money. Just the thought of it is so exciting," says Poonam.

 

Is it a profitable business? According to Poonam, an investment of Rs 50, 000 can ensure a business that makes profits, within three months. She adds, "Although my time is not paid for and I have to find another revenue source to compensate, everything else, including my team of service employees, potters, and experts, are paid for by the sales of the product. I can still say that it has been highly profitable for me. I have made a lot of friends and get a lot of fulfillment when I sleep, being involved with such a good cause."

 

Making it future perfect

Poonam is currently working on designing a mechanical composting device, which she dreams would one day be fitted into everyone's house and it would become like second nature for people to use it. "Firstly, architectural solutions are required to execute this project. Secondly, I need money to travel to places in India and abroad, to show the product to people, as well as to educate them about composting. This, combined with a two-minute spoof on composting by a Rajnikant or Amitabh Bachchan, aired free on a Star TV or Zee, and I'll feel like I have really achieved something," she says. Again, she plans to make this an open source idea for small fabricators all over the country to start replicating.

 

Whether it is constructing green buildings, using CFL lamps, driving eco-friendly vehicles or something as simple as replacing plastic bags with those made out of paper; everyone seems to be doing their bit to become a responsible, environment-friendly citizen. Poonam, by offering a range of composting products and flexible service plans to households is not only doing her bit, but has also paved the way for about a 1100 customers, based in Bangalore and Chennai, towards becoming green citizens.